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Friday, August 24, 2007

Gotcha Day's 1 Month Anniversary!

Where do I begin? Today is exactly one month to the day since Gotcha Day. So much has happened since we became a family, 1 month ago. Yes, so much has happened since returing home, just 3 weeks ago. It seems like she's been ours forever, because our whole lives seem to literally revolve around her. I have to think hard, sometimes, about what our routine was before San San came into our lives. Life is definitely not the same. I have to say, it has become so much richer and joyful.
Since the day we brought her home, Angeline has blossomed so much. We can't believe how much progress she's made since we brought her home from the orphanage, just one month ago. Taken from the only world she's ever known, given to people she's never met and don't understand, and taken to live in strange places. She's come so far, not only logistically, but developmentally and emotionally. She's gone from a shell-shocked, scared little baby to a radiant, happy (and may I say, flirty) little toddler. Sometimes I forget she's still a baby, because she has so much personality. My mother-in-law says she seems so mature for her age. It's only when she cries, that we're reminded that San San's only a 1 year old baby.
She's like a little ray of sunshine when she smiles. She enjoys meeting new people and is not as afraid of strangers, as before. With people she recognizes, she greets with an adorable smile. With people she's familiar with, she adds a little dance jig and offers a big hug. She's a very curious baby, which makes her a lot of fun. She is interested in everything and everyone. I think since my parents and I have been taking her out and about, almost daily, that she's become more worldly.
Since our last blog entry, that same night, Angeline has slept peacefully in her crib. She actually prefers it, because she has so much more room. Thanks so much Janet, for your advice. It worked! Some things haven't changed though, since Gotcha Day, she still loves to eat ALOT! So much that she's gained 3 1/2 pounds in a month. Her pediatrician said that it's catch-up eating, which is normal, and that she is at the correct weight for her height now. If we let her, she can eat more than me! No, I don't eat that little! Anyways, we figured out a trick, that if we give her a cup of juice before meals, she manages to get full faster. We call this the "baby portion control" diet, or "no spit-up" diet. Instead of grunting, she has learned to ask for more food by saying "mama". She says this even when she's tugging on daddy's arm. Oh, well.
She has so much energy! She wants to walk and climb so bad, that the adults around her have to take turns supporting her or risk over-exhaustion. We expect she'll be walking on her own, in another month and running in two. Watch out world, here she comes!
She's gotten to know her maternal grandparents really well. She sees them pretty much daily. She's got them trained so that they walk her, feed her on cue, rock her when she's sleepy and pretty much come immediately, on demand. She's even trained them to take her out to dim sum 2 to 3 times a week. Mom has to watch this overzealous little toddler and her eating habits. She'll try any food and will like it, too. She even eats BITTERMELON! Even dad can't stomach more than 2 tiny slices in one sitting. You go girl!
Unfortunately, since returning home, William has been battling a sore throat and, we thought, a cold. Just last weekend, we found out it was not a cold, he was trying to get over, but a fever. After taking San San for a dip in the pool, in Sacramento, he immediately came down with a 104 degree fever. I have, also, been trying to get over a sore throat, but since I haven't officially started work yet and have a little, less rigid schedule, I hope to get over this bug faster.
San San will be getting a neurological and developmental assessment check-up in two weeks, just to see where she's at and should be age-wise. We'll keep you posted!

Tuesday, August 7, 2007

Home at Last!






Hi, everyone! Yes, we are home at last. It's been 5 days since our return, so I'll, first, update you on our flight home. It was pretty much uneventful. We had a stop off at Narita airport in Japan. Angeline handled it fairly well. She had her own seat and the passenger next to us, who happened to be traveling with a 5 week old baby, was nice enough to move so that we had the whole row to ourselves. She saw seats further up front that allowed her more room, also. Thank goodness, Angeline didn't fuss much.

Since coming home, though, her fussiness has escalated. I think it is because Susan has been meeting her needs 24/7, that she was become even more clingy. It's pretty much the same before returning home, whereby, Susan would walk away a few feet and she would cry. Now, that she's home and not exposed to anyone, but her mom, she has become more demanding. She's not fussy around William, probably, because she doesn't see him as much in the day, when he works. Susan has decided she'll start taking her out more regularly to meet other people. She seems to do better when she's been out and about.

Angeline had a surprise welcome home party from William's mom on Saturday. She got to meet her grandparents, uncles, aunts and little cousin, who's just 7 months younger than her. They'll probably have a great time playing together.















Angeline has achieved quite a few milestones these past few days. Since returning home, she has learned to say "mama" and just today "baba". Not for lack of trying though. She thought she was saying "baba" when she was still saying "mama". You can see, though, that she's trying hard to articulate correctly, but the wrong sound keeps coming out. She's, also, learned to crawl, walk with mom's aide, take out her plastic stacking cups one-by-one and, again, today, learned to put them in a pail, wave "bye bye", and wave "hello" on cue. Mommy and Daddy are very pleased. Now, if we can just get her to sleep in her crib and not cling so much, then, she and we, will really have achieved something!

Thursday, August 2, 2007

We are ready to come home!

This is our finaly day in Guangzhou. Yes, we are ready to come home with Angeline(San San). This will be our last posting in Mainland China and we will have to wake up at 4:00am to catch our flight at 8:00am in the morning. Thanks all of you for following us along this exciting journey of ours and thanks for all the great comments. They really means a lot in supporting us in this transition time in our parenthood. We will see you back in the Bay Area. Bye

2 more days and we will be home…

In 2 more days, we will be flying home with Angeline. It will be our longest flight with Angeline, and we are really looking forward to it……..NOT. Well, we hope it will not be a bad experience.
We are really enjoying our time here with San San. She is such a happy baby since we receive her. Most of the time she smiles to people a lot and to us. Except when she didn’t get enough to eat…well actually, we never can tell if she is full., she could be cranky. San San usually don’t stop eating until we stopped feeding her. Although she eats a lot, she also goes to #2 a lot too. And we will only know when we start smelling it, she never cries even when she needs diaper change… she probably get used to it.
Today, we finally, and I mean finally, our paperwork is done, YuHoo!
Our trip to the US embassy was actually easier and faster than we expected. We left our hotel at 3:00pm…got to the US embassy at around 3:45 (the US embassy had actually moved quite far from the White Swan Hotel), started the Oath on time at around 4:00pm and we are out by 4:20pm. More time was spent on the road than the actual ceremony for adoptive families.
We are ready to fly back, but since we can’t get our ticket to fly back home until Friday, we will hang around a little more and try to enjoy this 5 stars White Swan Hotel.

Wednesday, August 1, 2007


Today is our second day in Guangzhou, we met with our guide and started the paperwork again,this time for a US visa, for Angeline. We had a nice breakfast buffet at the White Swan Hotel. We were quite surprised that the paperwork went so smoothly. Ms. Liang, our guide, had us fill out and sign the required paperwork and we were done in less than an hour. Afterward, in late morning, we decided to bring Angeline to see a pediatrician. Her breathing seemed somewhat labored and she was still coughing. Thankfully, one of William's aunts works at the Guangzhou children hospital. We were able to get Angeline in to see the pediatrician right away. To our surprise, Angeline was diagnosed with a mild case of bronchitis and she was prescribed antibiotics and cough medicine. The doctor said that since she appears to be very active, shows no problems with eating and daily bowel movements, she should be fine. What a relief!
After giving Angeline her medicine (she really likes taking the medicine, by the way, because it's sweet) and resting a little bit, in the afternoon, we went to do more shopping in a huge shopping mall call "Tee Mall" and bought more baby clothes. The clothes here really are inexpensive and there are many different styles to choose from. Thankfully mommy gave in and decided it was time to get a stroller. You would think our baby would be a very quiet and still baby, considering she's been in an orphanage, with very little interaction with the outside world. But, no, our baby multi-tasks! She can move her head, arms, body, legs, you name it, every which way, all at the same time, non-stop. We are truly grateful for the stroller. Angeline is, thankfully, willing to sit in it and seems to have a great time people-watching. She's in awe of all the new sights, sounds and smells. Her head busily whiplashes back and forth,and up and down. She even likes the taste of her new stroller!

Tuesday, July 31, 2007

and again!

She can eat them again...

Baby Angeline seems to like bread a lot

Angeline has a very active personality

Hi, everyone! It’s Sunday here in Guangzhou.


Thanks everyone for letting me know that you see the blog fine!
We arrived at the airport, this afternoon, to a warm welcome from William’s relatives. Many of his aunts, uncles and cousins, whom he hasn’t seen in a few years, live in Guangzhou. Everyone was so excited to meet our new daughter, Angeline. (We have been calling her San San, because we think she would be able to take to her Chinese name easier.) We’ll start calling her Angeline, when we return back home.
We were a little apprehensive about how San San would handle her first plane flight. We had heard so much about how fussy babies get during take-off and touchdown that we made sure we were well-prepared. San San was not going to get the better of us. Not this day! No frazzled, worn-out parents to meet the relatives! So, daddy prepared the bottles, one with water and one with juice, and took out the toys. When the plane started to line up, along the runway, William gave her one bottle of juice. Half- way through the bottle, the announcer announces that it would be another 10 minutes before take off. We thought, you’ve got to be joking! We had a dilemma, should we take the bottle away from San San, before she finished, and risk upsetting her, or just forget our well-made plan. Anyways, we decided to let her keep drinking and prayed that the plane would take-off soon. Well, San San finished the juice before the plane took-off… she ended up sucking her thumb and fell fast asleep. WHAT A NICE BABY! Why didn’t we think of that?!
Throughout the rest of the plane flight, she did so well.

First day in Guangzhou was quite an interesting transition for San San. After we checked -in to the White Swan Hotel, we had Dim Sum with William’s relatives. San San got to meet many of her new relatives very quickly and up-close, too. She was doted on by everyone. We noticed San San attached to some relatives more than others. She particularly likes to be held by those that wore glasses, especially, skinny men wearing glasses. Huh, we wonder why? She goes to women who wear glasses, too, until she realizes that they are not mommy.
At night, we had a big dinner celebration, in a noisy, crowded Guangzhou restaurant. The food was great!!!

Sunday, July 29, 2007

Day 7 Today is Shopping Day.

We went to Nanjing Road (the most popular shopping street in Shanghai) for a walk and bought more baby clothes. They are so pretty and relatively inexpensive, because they are “Made In China”. We bought onesies for $2 a piece. Shopping malls here in Shanghai are humongous. It would probably require someone a whole day to walk through it.
Tomorrow is our last day in Shanghai, we will attempt to do some shopping for mommy’s clothes. We will be leaving to Guangzhou on Sunday morning. It will be San San’s first flying experience on a plane. We are really looking forward to it. It’ll give us an idea of how she’ll handle her plane flight home, to the US.

Day 6 Becoming more relaxed with our daughter (San San)

Today is Thursday, July 26, and San San’s cough and runny nose is getting better. We think the infant cough medicine is starting to work. Her phlegm seems much easier to cough up. Today is a fairly relaxing day. We’ve finished all the necessary paperwork today. Our guide was nice enough to bring San San’s Chinese passport to us, rather than have us go to the gov’t office to pick it up, which is the normal routine. Tom and Jim have made the adoption process for us amazingly smooth, in Shanghai. We are so grateful! It’s still very hot outside, about 38 degree Celcius, so we didn’t go out in the daytime. We tried having the baby play with the new toys that we bought her, but she still seems not to want to play by herself. Being next to her is not enough, she insists on being held while she plays.
This evening, we returned to the mall and had Shanghai’s popular Shanghai noodles. Susan finally gets a little break. With a sigh of relief, San San fell asleep without too much fuss and is right now, sleeping between the pillows, on our bed. Once asleep, she sleeps quite well through the night.

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

A happy baby that always smiling and laughing!

The EXCELLENT CARETAKER feeding our lovely daughter right before the hand over!

Day 4 and Day 5

The first night with the baby wasn't too bad, at least not for the daddy.
Totally out of mommy's suprise, San San doesn't have any attachment issues at all. She actually was attached with mommy so well she slept through the night on mommy's tummy... for the "WHOLE" night. What a Lovely baby!

On day 4, baby wake up early in the morning, had formula and bun, then we head over to the Adoption and Marriage Service Center to sign the official paper work. ANGELINE IS OFFICIALLY OUR DAUGHTER FROM NOW AND FOREVER! We love you Angeling!!!
It was so hot and humid while we were running around with our guides, baby Angeline handle it really well and didn't make any noise at all even though her forehead was dripping sweat...poor baby! But I guess she did get used to the hot weather.
We rushed to our apartment right after all the paper works were done. We rested for the afternoon. Then we went out to the shopping mall for dinner at night when it's not as hot as the day time. After dinner, we did a little shopping for baby's clothes. And guess what, San San was so happy to see so many new things, and she starts saying "baaa baaaa...". Daddy was melted and can't describe the unbelivable feeling as a father.
At night, baby Angeline still has to sleep on mommy's tummy, and still is very afraid of losing mommy :(

On day 5, we pretty much stayed at the apartment for the day. We waked up in the morning and trying to have a routine for the baby. When Angeline saw daddy in the morning, she always cry until we play mommy, daddy, and San San game because she still doesn't get used to seeing man. We will tell baby who mommy, daddy and San San is while mommy is touching our faces... and Angeline will watch us closely.

Afterward, of course we brush her teeth then we feed her milk and bun. We played with her and listened to some Chinese children's song. She was then hold by daddy for the FIRST time and she felt asleep on daddy's arm. In the afternoon, mommy desparately wanted her break after holding Angeling for 3 straight days, Angeline was hold by daddy and cried the whole time. Angeline is really testing daddy's patient.

San San is quite cranky today. She cries the most today, because she was having runny nose and coughing quite a bit due to the cold that she caught since the first day we saw her and is getting a littler worst. Luckily, we did brought some robitussin...and it seems to help a bit for her coughing. As a routine now, we went out at night time to the mall for dinner. We will be head on to Guangzhou in 3 days. and hopefully, we will get the Chinese passport for San San tomorrow or Friday.

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Day 3 GOTCHA DAY!!!



Hi Everyone! I know you’ve all been waiting for this day to come. I have to say it’s been incredible, unbelievable and definitely, hard to describe, especially, all the emotions we felt throughout today.
Right now, it is 1 AM Tuesday morning. I was finally able to slip away to post on this blog, while Angeline is sleeping.
The day started out early around 8am, when we met our two guides Tom and Jim. We took a taxi to the governmental office to take care of the adoption paperwork first, before heading to get Angeline, at the orphanage. It was uneventful, except for the fact that we were the only couple there at the office. The guides expected that there would be other groups there, too. Suffice it to say, the paperwork took probably a total of 10 mins. and we were off to the orphanage, 30 mins. away.
The orphanage, which is called Shanghai Children’s Home, at first glance from the outside, looks like a beautifully-gated theme park. It is a huge facility, newly-built in 2001, and is considered the best-of-the-best of orphanages, in all of China. China is very proud of this facility and has made this orphanage into a showcase. It has trained and certified caretakers, medical and dental in-house care, programs for music and dance classes, facilities for specialists to perform regular cognitive and developmental tests, classes to teach the children basic education and much, much more.
Well, enough about the orphanage. I think I went on a tangent, didn’t I? We were definitely very impressed!
Upon arriving at the orphanage, and after viewing the informational video that they had us watch, we walked across the campus (yes, literally that big) to find Angeline’s room.
When we walked into her room, we saw a group of four nannies or caretakers seated on stools, in one corner of the room, feeding babies porridge. To their right, was a long line of maybe eight babies, in walkers, waiting to be fed. It was quite a scene! Some babies were crying because they were hungry and it wasn’t their turn, some babies were already fed and laying quietly, in their cribs. Our Angeline, had just passed the front of the line and was being fed. I, being her mom, picked her out of the crowd immediately! A sixth sense is what they call it. Either that, or it was because she was the only one with hair. Apparently, they knew we were coming to get her, so they had let her hair grow out.
After her feeding, they quickly changed her clothes and attempted to hand her to me. It was an awkward attempt at best! Her grip on her caretaker was like a vise. It had to pry her off of her. Obviously, she cried, but fortunately, only for a few minutes. After all the picture-taking, and quick Q & A session, we swept Angeline back across the campus, into a waiting taxi cab. Literally, from that moment forward, she has not loosened her grip on me, until now. William is doing his best to try to play with her, but she’s not having anything to do with him or anyone else for that matter. I’ve heard that this will pass and I can’t wait, because my arms are killing me!
Anyways, enough literature for now, I’m sure you want to see pictures and video clips. Please let us know your thoughts. We truly welcome hearing from you guys. If our pics don’t look right, please let us know. We can post the pictures, but we can’t see how they come out, because China blocks them somehow. ENJOY!!!
P.S. We did have an opportunity to go to her finding spot (the place where she was found) and, even, talked with the person who found her. It was very emotional!
Will anyone please email me and let me know if you see the blog ok?
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Sunday, July 22, 2007

Day 1 & 2 Last two days of Coupledom…

After many hours of flying, we finally arrived at PuDong International Airport at night. We had a warm welcome from our two guides, Tom and Jim, at the airport. Despite being very tired from the flight, we enjoyed being entertained by them, on our ride to our apartment, while they talked about the Shanghai Children’s Home and how modern it is. Our guides are very informative, well-informed and totally nice people. They told us that it was rare to be able to adopt a child from Shanghai, because this city seldom has abandoned babies, compared to other provinces. People here are just more well-off, compare it to like New York, in the states. We were also told we would be able to visit the orphanage, so that we can see for ourselves, how modern the orphanage is. The purpose of modernizing the orphanage is to give the children a better living environment conducive to better learning and development.

After resting for the night, on Day 1, Lana, our friend, accompanied us to the supermarket and mall to shop for baby supplies. Shanghai is such a modern city that any item we wanted to buy, they had. Not only did they have Pampers and Huggies, they also had European brands, too. Susan was tickled pink to be able to find what she needed. After a long day of shopping, we all went to get a foot massage…we even managed to fall asleep midway through the massage.

On day 2, feeling a little less jet lagged, we woke-up at a decent hour to do some light shopping at Nanjing Road. It is our last day as a couple, yea…but, then I really feel like we will miss it. Mommy and some friends went to the hair salon to have their hair cut and washed.
In the afternoon, we went to meet our guide, Tom. His hospitality is much appreciated. He took us on a nice tour of Shanghai City and its newly developed areas, in Pudong.

At night, we had dinner with Tom. We took the opportunity to bombard him with questions about the adoption process and what we needed to do tomorrow. To our amazement, he told us “Don’t worry. Everything will be very easy!” Now, not knowing how our little Angeline will be take to us, we are definitely a little concerned. But, Tom kept reassuring us that all the babies that he had seen placed with families, in his experience, attached really well with their new parents. Well, we hope he is right! We will definitely find our early tomorrow morning--- OUR GOTCHA DAY!!!

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

FINALLY, it's really happening!


We still can't believe it! We have to keep pinching ourselves and each other. In less than 24 hours, we will be sitting at SFO, waiting to fly over to the other side of the world, to receive our daughter. It is with some nervousness, anxiousness, and trepidation, that we start our journey into parenthood. We will continue to post pictures on this blog about our experiences, throughout our trip in China.
We'd like to thank everyone for all the wonderful comments and support, you've given us, not just during our adoption process, but, all these years, when we were trying to start a family.
The next time we blog, it will be from Shanghai. Please check in with us soon. BYE!

Latest Picture of Our Lovely Angeline!


One more day and we will be traveling to receive our lovely daughter.
Over these last few days, we have so busy packing, packing and more packing.
It seems like it's never-ending. We want to make sure we bring everything we will need, but, also, not so much that it seems like we're bringing our whole house with us.
We have to constantly remind ourselves to pack "LIGHT". Yeah, right!
We're, also, happy to have received the above picture of our baby, from Janet Fink. She was so nice to take pictures for us, so that we can have a first glimpse of our lovely daughter. Janet had just returned home, from her trip to the Shanghai Children's Home, after she finished her therapy work, at the orphanage.
In the picture, Angeline is being held by her most-loved caretaker. Her picture is, also, taken with her next to the pillow, we sent her. She looks confused. She's probably thinking, who are these people and why are they plastered on a pillow?
Wow! I can start feeling the connection between us. I hope she recognizes us when we meet on Gotcha Day!

Saturday, July 14, 2007

Here is our day by day itinerary!

5 more days and counting.............
Here is our daily itinerary:

Day 1 19 July, Thursday - Leaving on Shanghai at SFO (approx. 15 hours to Tokyo + 2
hours transfer to Shanghai)
Day 2 20 July, Friday - Arrive in Shanghai at night. Staying at Shimao Riviera Garden Apartment.
Day 3 21 July, Saturday - Get all supplies and food ready and get settled into the house.
Day 4 22 July, Sunday - Relax and prepare for the BIG day.
Day 5 23 July, Monday - Gotcha Day in the morning!
9AM officially meet our daughter & begin the registration
process at the Civil Affairs Dept.of Shanghai Province.
(Finally, get to be holding Angeline!)
Day 6 24 July, Tuesday - Get Notary
Day 7 25 July, Wednesday - Visit the orphange, if possible
Day 8 26 July, Thursday - Relaxing day, playing with Angeline
Day 9 27 July, Friday - Receive Chinese Passport
Day 10 28 July, Saturday Relaxing day, sightseeing in Shanghai
Day 11 29 July, Sunday - Travel to Guangzhou and check into the White Swan Hotel on Shamian Island
Day 12 30 July, Monday - Medical check-up
Day 13 31 July, Tuesday - 9:00AM visa appointment
Day 14 1 August, Wednesday -4PM Oath ceremony and get US visa. We are officially done!
Day 15 2 August, Thursday - Visiting families in Guangzhou, prepare to return to US.
Day 16 3 August, Friday - Flying back to the US in the morning!

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

8 more days and counting..........


Only 8 more days left and we will be flying across the Pacific Ocean, to the other side of the world, to the beautiful city of Shanghai, to meet with our long-awaited, lovely daughter,Angeline. All of a sudden, we feel time is running out. We feel so not ready, since there are still so much to prepare for Angeline's homecoming (but, we are actually so anxious that we want to hold her in our arm every time we look at her photos!).
In these few days, we've been busy preparing our documents, to bring back to china, booking our hotel romm, and starting our packing.
We did finally get our airfares booked. We purchased 2 airfares to Shanghai, but 3 airfares to return back to US from Guangzhou. What a good feeling to have! Two persons leaving on a trip and three persons coming back.

In only 8 days, we will find out where Angeline had spent the first year of her life. We are so thrill to have found some pictures that show the inside of Shanghai's welfare institute or orphanage! An organization run by voluteers travelled to china and did an exploratory trip to Shanghai Children's home around March of this year, and had taken many photographs.

You can check this site out and see if you see Angeline in these photos.
We have looked closely at the photos numerous times to see if Angeline may be in there.....but yet to confirm if she is in these photos. At the time when they took these pictures, she was probably around 10 months old. Here is the website:

http://www.volunteerforhope.org/en/2007/pages/photoalbum.html

Please let us know if you think you see Angeline in the photos.

Sunday, July 8, 2007

A little more time for ourselves!

We would like to congratulate Amy and Zachery on the adoption of their cute, little girl Caelyn. They had just returned home from China on Friday. You are welcome to view their exciting journey, by just clicking on their link, on our blog.

This was definitely a busy week and weekend for us. Belive it or not, we actually worked on July 4th. No, we are not workaholics! The whole office agreed it would be better to close on July 5th and get a 4 day weekend out of it. We were thinking of doing fireworks on July 4ht at our house, but we'd rather wait to celebrate when Angeline comes home. So we just enjoyed the night watching fireworks on TV.

On July 5th, we continued to prepare the house, clean, and organize (throw things out!). Mommy was very busy washing all the clothes for baby Angeline.

On July 6th, we spent a day being adventurous. We went whitewater rafting on the American River, in Sacramento, with our office staff and friends(see below for photos taken at the American River).... We definitely won't be doing it for awhile, once we have our daughter. It was really fun and scorching HOT! We had a pretty scary moment when Susan fell off the raft going down one of the rapids..........luckily she swam fast enough to get back to our raft.

On Saturday we were so tired from our trip, we slept for half the day. We'll surely miss sleeping in.......but maybe not.

On Sunday, we were back to our fast track mode again. More preparation of the house and we, actually, cleared up the back yard, to make it more child proof. Susan went to shop for more baby supplies. It seems to never end.




Wednesday, July 4, 2007

New Measurement Update

Happy 4th of July, everyone!!! As I'm typing this blog, I hear fireworks popping and whistling just outside my window. I'm thinking, next year AJ will be 2 years old. She'll probably be ready to see her first fireworks display. Lots of "wow"s and "ahh"s! Which, by the way, I will tell her, was invented in China some blah, blah, blah years ago. (I guess I'd better google for the answer before that time comes, huh?).

Anyways, yesterday we received updated measurements of AJ at 13 months. Our pediatrician was a little concerned about the accuracy of previous measurements and wanted us to request updated ones. Her old measurements placed her in the bottom 3rd percentile of normal weight, height and head size, but her pictures showed her to be normal developmentally. To say the least, we were pretty concerned. Was she terribly malnourished? Did her head size indicate that she would have learning difficulties down the line? Will any of this affect her future social, emotional and physical development?

After two weeks of apprehension, our agency coordinator, was finally able to convince CCAA to fax us new updated measurements. AJ must have put up a good fight! That's our girl! Well, we received it yesterday via e-mail and am happy to say, that the new numbers place her close to the 50th percentile, in terms of, head circumference (whew!) and her weight, though still on the low end, around the 10th percentile. She's a tiny little thing, but she seems to be very healthy! We are falling in love with her more and more every day.

About a month ago I received an e-mail from a wonderful woman, by the name of Janet Fink. She had founded a foundation called Shanghai Superkids, which brings occupational therapists to Chinese orphanages to help rehabilitate children who have special needs. She had, also, adopted a little girl with special needs from Shanghai Children's Welfare Institute (SCWI), in 2005.

She wrote that she was going to visit SCWI, in late June, and if we were interested in having her to try to get pictures of AJ. We were,like, oh my gosh! No way, this is just too awesome! If she carries this off, she is going to get a very nice donation from us! I, really wanted pictures of AJ before adoption, so that we can show them to her, when she's older, what her life was like before we came into it. Great lifebook material!

Well, to make a long story short(not!), she returned to the states last Friday and e-mailed us to let us know she had seen AJ. She wrote that when she walked into AJ's room, AJ zoomed over in her walker to see who came in. When she picked AJ up to give her a hug, she cried, because she was shy and didn't know who she was. (I would have given anything to have been there to hug her myself.) But, once she handed her over to her favorite caregiver, she immediately stopped crying. We can already imagine something similar on GOTCHA DAY! But, this time, we won't be handing her back to her caregiver. All-in-all, a great sign, though! What this tells us is that she has learned to form healthy attachments to those who love and take care of her and, therefore, will be capable of forming healthy attachments again. It is always a concern for adoption experts when babies don't form a bond with those familiar to them and just go indiscriminately to anyone.

Janet, bless her heart, was able to take pictures of AJ and her favorite caregiver, along with a pillow we had sent to her, with both of our pictures on it. She was even able to take some video footage! We couldn't believe it! We are just over the moon with joy and anticipation! We're hoping to receive it in the mail any day now. WAITING, WAITING, WAITING!!! It seems like that's all we've been doing, lately. Well, anyways, we look forward to sharing them with you, just as soon as we get them.

Monday, July 2, 2007

Notice of traveling to china for adoption RECEIVED!

Over the weekend, we are so busy preparing for Angeline's home coming. Daddy and mommy were busy working out to prepare to carry baby Angeline as much as possible when received her in china so that we can bond with her faster. Mommy is also busy organizing baby's room, and started to prepare cabinet space in the kitchen for Angeline's eating wares....we were told adopted babies are always so hungry in the first few months.

Today, we are excited to hear from our agency, our Traveling Notice is here!!!
For the longest wait, we finally have a traveling date now. It is going to be on July 19th.....tic tic tic tic.....a 17 days count down.
This will be the longest 17 days in our lives waiting, waiting, and waiting, for our baby princess from china.
We should be receiving our itinarary tomorrow from our agency, and we will post some more.


Angeline is 1-1-1!

Angeline is exactly One year, one month and one day old! How exciting!
We miss you Angeline! We can't wait any longer to come pick you up.

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

a little about china's adoption............



In China there is a one child policy. In many areas, it's illegal to have more than one child. The cultural preferences is for boys. As a result, up to 100,000 Chinese girls are aborted or abandoned every year. This is possibly the largest population control effort in human history. Therefore, Chinese orphanages are overwhelmingly full of little girls.
We are really thankful to have the chance to be able to adopt one of these girls..... nourish her, take care of her, and unconditionally loving her.
In 2001, Chinese government has spent over 100 million RMB to built a new orphanage in shanghai, and they try to use it as a showcase for china to increase the quality of care in other orphanages in other Chinese cities.

Saturday, June 23, 2007

Here is the Routine Schedule for Baby Angeline in China.

This was the original report from china with information about baby Angeline's daily schedule at the SWI (Social Welfare Institute). They wrote that her daily main course is nutritious soft rice....of course, rice is THE main course for most chinese people. The SWI starts babies on rice cereal at a very young age, so that they can stay full longer.

Daily routine schedule:

5:30am -she wakes us and has one bottle of milk (formula);
7:30am -she eats steamed eggs;
9:00am to 10:30am -she has indoor/outdoor activities;
10:30am -she eats a nutritious lunch (nutritious soft
rice);after the meal, she rests, then takes an afternoon nap;
1:30pm -she will have another bottle of milk (formula);
2:00pm -she eats dim sum (haha, grandma and grandpa will be very happy to know that, so while they take care of her, they can still go to dim sum often)and fruits;
afterwards she has activity time;
4:30pm -she eats dinner (nutritious soft rice); (Early dinner because they have many babies to feed)
8:00pm -it's time for bed and sleep

Sunday, June 17, 2007

So, what's next?

............you must be wondering.


Well, we are waiting patiently for our visa appointment confirmation from the US Consulate in Guangzhou, which will determine our actual travel dates. We should travel 2 weeks after we receive our travel confirmation, which is about 4-6 weeks after referral. Anxiously waiting, we do have lots of preparation to do before our daughter comes home.



Just this past Friday we met with our adoption agency discussed our projected travel itinieary and baby care issues. We had a travel arrangement meeting with our agency, and we learn so much about how our child will be presented to us, where we will receive her, how best to bond with her, and so on..........how exciting to learn so much about babies!




Our agency is doing such a great job in helping us prepare mentally(about having a new member in our family), and emotionally (about having to deal with a crying baby in our house) for this trip.




During our 2 weeks there, we will spend approximately 1 week in each city.


Week One - Adoption proceedings in Shanghai City

This is where we will finally get to hold Angeline in our arms. We get to take her with us and return with her the next day for official paperwork and signatures. While we wait for her passport to be processed, we get to sight see and bond, bond, bond! We then travel to Guangzhou for her visa and swearing in.




Week Two - Visa proceedings in Guangzhou

Once at the US Consulate in Guangzhou, we are sworn in with 150 other familes, which finalizes our adoption process and allows us to bring Angeline to America with us . With her visa in hand, we can then leave for home.

Sunday, June 10, 2007

Long Awaited 1st Look at our Beautiful Little Princess!


Right after the agecny received the mail of the referral from China, we were called to get the very 1st look at the photos of our beautiful baby girl!
Picture of us with Kathleen from Adopt International who has been very helpful in making our dream come true.

Thursday, June 7, 2007

Celebration in the office with CIGARS!

Thanks everyone for the chocolate cigars!

Susan is so happy to receive the gift from the whole staff.
They are all so thoughtful.

All staff members sharing the happy moment looking at our new baby girl's photos.

Proud dad lighting his cigar, or should I say eating!

Wednesday, June 6, 2007

Referral Day!!!

Hi Everyone,

This is our first posting and it's a BIG one!
As we promised, you are ALL the first to know that we are very proud parents of a baby girl!
Her name is Angeline Jasmine Wen San Ho.
After waiting for over a year, the agency submitted our dossier in May 2006, Susan received the phone call this morning from our adoption agency, to inform us that our match was here.
CCAA (Chinese Consulate of Adoption Affairs) in Beijing had finally matched us with a baby girl!
We were told that she was born in Shanghai city, on May 31, 2006.
We are very grateful to have her true birthdate. She turned one years old just last Thursday!
According to her paperwork that was sent with her referral pictures, as of March 12, 2007 she weighed 6.5 kg, was 66 cm long and has one tooth. Wow, she has one tooth which we can start training her to brush! I know what you're thinking, a couple of crazy dentists!
She is described to be active, restless, fond of listening to music, and has a ready smile. All traits that will make her a daddy's girl right off the bat. Restless and active!!! Mom has already started to worry!
We were so excited that, rather than waiting a day or two, we signed the approval letter to be sent back to CCAA right away and am now waiting anxiously for the US consulate in Guangzhou to give us a departure date to China. The longest wait in our lives.
We will keep you all posted as we plan for this exciting journey to bring our daughter home from China.